“When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them and healed their sick.” Matthew 14:14 (NIV)
Recently we took our littlest into the doctor. I do fine when there for a well check or my child is “medium” sick. However, this last visit he was lethargic, pale, and being watched to determine if we needed to go to the hospital or back home. You know it’s serious when the minute you arrive, you are ushered back to a room after one glance at your child’s face.
I’ll admit, while he was triaged by the nurse, I started to cry. She was just taking his vitals, but I started to lose it. Her mixture of sympathy toward him and needing details of his symptoms, coupled with seven hours of sleep in the last 48 hours did me in. Later that day, when he was sitting on my lap as the lab technician was trying to draw blood out of dehydrated veins, I again had tears streaming down my face while my little one stayed dry-eyed and brave.
It was after that experience I realized another truth about myself. I am not a nurse. There is a reason God didn’t allow me to go into the medical profession. In college, I had applied to be a 911 operator, but was turned down because of my class schedule. I was disappointed because I thought responding to emergencies and being able to keep a calm head sounded like an exciting adventure for someone single, childless, with lots of freedom. However, instead I took a job checking ID’s at the college gym, which transitioned into a job at a tuxedo shop, which turned into the job at the residential home where I was “mommy” to many troubled children, a job much more suited for my personality.
I have a lot of respect for those in the medical field. I also highly regard those who can respond to emergencies with a calm head. However, I have realized over the years, someone who cries at commercials, while reading great books, or watching TV shows or Disney movies, I’m probably not gifted in that area. My kids will pass me lounging in our special chair, sniffling, and their off-handed question is, “Is it the book?” I also cry almost every single week in church. My husband doesn’t bat an eye anymore…he just holds my hand and lets me wipe away my tears.
I often wondered why God created me to respond in such a way. And then I realized that with my quick tears comes empathy. I feel deeply for those who are hurt, mistreated, or have experienced pain in their lives. I’m drawn to taking care of children and loving with my whole heart whether or not they are my own. As I spoke about in the previous post, we are all gifted in different ways and each of those gifts work together to serve a distinct purpose for God’s kingdom. I’m so grateful there are nurses out there with compassion and dry eyes to look for signs and symptoms I would miss in my sick child. I’m thankful there are 911 operators who keep a calm head in an emergency so first responders can arrive quickly and save lives.
I have to say, overall, I’m thankful for my tears. I’m able to teach compassion to my children, show empathy toward those who are hurting, and share a box of Kleenex during a fun family movie night. Yes, I was the only one who cried while watching Frozen with my family. Maybe I do need to grow a little tougher backbone. It was a musical, after all, not a drama.
(Thank you to my cousins for supplying this picture as well. They are firsthand first responders and I am so grateful they do what they do. Love you guys and thanks for serving our country as well as those who are in trouble.)
© Cheri Swalwell 2014
2 Replies to “I am Not a Nurse”
I am also a crying person. It took my husband a while to figure out that serious conversations would include tears, and that he had to continue.
I can tear up while watching the news, commercials, videos at church, seeing my son cry (even if I “cause”it for his own good), etc.
Waterworks have not gotten in the way of my job, thankfully. It does amaze me because I definitely go through the gamut of emotions on my job.
I hope to some day understand God’s purpose behind my excess tears!
Thank you, KristenE, for sharing with us! I’m excited to see how God reveals to you how He will use the tender spirit He created in you for His purpose. Blessings to you, today, and to your family. I’d love to get to know you more – what is your job? There are times I wish I didn’t cry so easily but I am grateful for the compassion God put on my heart for others around me.
Look forward to talking more. Have a great rest of your day!