About the Book
Book: Blush
Author: Danielle Ripley-Burgess
Genre: Nonfiction
Release Date: September 15, 2020
NOBODY SAID growing up is easy. For Danielle, the safe suburbs of Kansas City always felt warm. Inviting. But one day, everything changed. Not only did she hate what puberty was doing to her body, she had spotted a few scary specks of blood after going number two. Gross. As an insecure tween who blushed during “the talk,” one who refused to buy toilet paper at the store, nobody could know her little secret. So she hid it from everyone—Mom, Dad, her brother, and her friends. This went on … for years.
Busted. Eventually, her secret came out. Danielle was rushed to the doctor and into a colonoscopy. Shock took over when she was diagnosed with a rare colon cancer (something the internet called an “old man’s disease”) just a few weeks after her seventeenth birthday. Seriously!?
High school mornings in classrooms morphed into nightmare days in cancer-center waiting rooms. Yet Danielle stayed hopeful, even grateful, for her illness. The way she saw it, fighting cancer spiced up her otherwise-boring testimony. And it brought her true love. Not until she heard the dreaded “It’s cancer” again at age twenty-five did she start to resent so much suffering and question her faith. Yet Danielle wasn’t about to stop. From Times Square to the White House, she became an outspoken survivor by starting a blog, as well as a young wife and a mom. Eventually, she found the self-acceptance she’d been looking for—it was guided by a still, small voice that had been with her all along.
In this soul-baring memoir, Blush: How I Barely Survived 17, Danielle reminds us that growing up is never easy, and she shows us how to go head to head with God. With out-of-body wisdom beyond its years, Blush beautifully inspires us to accept our imperfections and embrace every season of life.
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About the Author
Danielle Ripley-Burgess is a two-time colon cancer survivor first diagnosed at age seventeen and an award-winning communications professional. She writes and speaks to encourage those facing trials, under a motto of “faith that survives.” She’s the author of Blush: How I Barely Survived 17 (Redemption Press, 2020), The Holiday Girls (Little Lights Studio, 2018), and Unexpected: 25 Advent Devotionals. Her story has been told around the world through outlets like The Today Show, BBC’s World Have Your Say, Sirius Radio’s Doctor Radio, the Chicago Tribune, the Huffington Post, among others. Home is in Kansas City with her husband, Mike, and daughter, Mae. When she’s not writing, she can be found baking her favorite chocolate chip cookie recipe. It’s a good one. Follow her blog at DanielleRipleyBurgess.com or connect on social media at @DanielleisB.
More from Danielle
I walked into the classroom, hung my backpack on a designated hook and glanced at the chalkboard as I took my seat. Sigh. It was spelling bee day. I’d dreaded it for weeks.
Most people probably didn’t realize I loathed the spelling bee, especially my teacher. As a book-loving student who aced nearly all English exams, anyone could have rightly assumed I would be jazzed about the competition. I was a great candidate to represent our class. But there was one little problem: it sounded like a nightmare. I wanted nothing to do with it. The idea of the whole school looking at me on stage—the chance of people noticing the zits on my face, seeing a bra underneath my shirt, or calling me a nerd because I was a strong speller—sounded awful. No thanks.
“Riiinnngggg”
A buzzer echoing throughout the hallways kicked off our school day. My teacher, dressed in a popular floral dress from the 1990s, walked to the chalkboard to take control of our classroom. The pledge of allegiance, math worksheets and recess distracted me from the schedule until the dreaded hour came.
“Everyone please stand up, push in your chairs and join the circle,” my teacher insisted as she waved her hands to gather us. It was time.
Fortunately, I had a plan: I was going to cheat.
If my spelling test grades were any indicator, I had a good chance of making the spelling bee. So, I decided to purposely spell my word wrong. I would use a wrong vowel toward the end of the word and pause to hear, “I’m sorry but that’s incorrect.”
Let’s just say my plan worked like a charm. Relief flooded my chest when I was asked to sit down and join the others who were knocked out of the competition. A few weeks later during the school-wide spelling bee, I deeply exhaled and smiled widely as I watched my classmates compete on stage from the gymnasium floor. I was so glad it was them and not me.
Today, 25 years later, this memory is both a victory and a tragedy. I can’t help but see my younger self, a tween girl who felt embarrassed about her body, and feel proud of her for identifying what she did and didn’t want. That moment in fifth grade helped her find her voice. Yet her empowerment came at a high cost.
Convinced that hiding her true self—her body, her smarts and her opinions—was the only way, this thinking led to her nearly losing her life. If I could go back and chat with her today, I’d affirm her fears yet encourage her to see God gave her the smarts—being a strong speller and a good writer is a gift and not a bad thing. I’d challenge her to accept herself and say that dominating the school-wide spelling bee could actually be a great thing.
Blush is a memoir that tells many other stories like my fifth grade spelling bee. The book is dedicated to my daughter, who is just now becoming a tween. As I’ve relived my life by writing this book, I’ve not only found nuggets of truth to pass on to her as she navigates adolescence, but also confidence and redemption in my story.
Many of us have believed the lie that to be accepted, we must hide. I wrote Blush not only for my daughter, but for anyone looking for inspiration and hope. It’s a book especially for those who are ready to finally face their insecurities and consider how to stop sitting it out and instead take the stage.
Danielle Ripley-Burgess is a two-time colon cancer survivor first diagnosed at age 17, an award-winning communications professional and author of Blush: How I barely survived 17. Follow her blog at DanielleRipleyBurgess.com or connect on social media at @Danielleis
Author Interview for Blush:
Do you have a team or do you manage all aspects of writing by yourself? How do you balance writing, marketing, social media, etc.?
I’m a new author and Blush is my first long-form book, so it’s mostly all me! I have always wanted to write, but I didn’t realize it was a viable career. In college, I studied public relations because writing was part of the profession, so I fortunately picked up strategic communications skills that lend themselves well to being an author. My biggest advice for my clients (and now myself) is to create a campaign plan. It makes things more successful, and go smoother, in the long run—including promoting books.
It can be difficult to treat myself like a client. (I mean do chefs cook gourmet meals for their families every night?) It’s definitely easier to work on client campaigns versus my own. But I’ve got several friends who encourage me to keep going. Also, I have recently asked a friend to help me schedule posts on my Facebook page to keep it active and engaging. I’m learning to receive help when it’s offered and to lean into both my skills and community.
When you thought about being a writer, did it look like your days look now? How are they the same? How are they different?
I don’t know why, but even still today, I picture writers as people with cozy little cabins in the woods where books line the shelves and the smell of smoky chimney mixed with hot tea fills the air. Paper and pens all over the place, the writer is left with nothing to do but ponder nature and jot down a few sentences at a time. And let’s just say—my life looks nothing like that.
I do collect a lot of books and am considering ways to remodel our home and add more shelves! I like to sip both hot coffee and tea. And, my desk is often littered with lined notepaper and pens. But instead of a secluded cabin in the woods, I am usually writing from my home office in the suburbs or an occasional coffee shop. And while I do enjoy it here, I’m constantly interrupted by either the dog, doorbell or my beloved daughter who, in fact, has asked for something three times while I’ve been trying to type this one sentence.
If you have a family, how do they support your writing career?
I wouldn’t be a writer without the encouragement of my husband, Mike. He gives me gifts like memoir writing books, journals and nice pens. He’s been quick to hang out with our daughter while I disappear to write. His support has not only made writing a practical reality, but he’s emotionally built me up.
Also, I write memoir, which can be tricky when it comes to telling family stories. But one of the most powerful things my mom said to me is, “Your story is your story—and you have a right to tell it.” Nobody’s life is perfect and memoir readers crave books that remind them of that. For my mom, dad and brother to all offer me unconditional love and support, and the permission to share many of our vulnerable stories, I am eternally grateful. I pray God brings double blessings their way.
What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self?
In a way, I have used Blush to go back and give myself a voice. So maybe the one thing I’d tell her is, “Hang in there… you have no idea what good will come from this pain. You’re not alone, you are seen, and God is going to transform the world with your story. Oh-and you won’t get periods forever.”
What’s one way God speaks to you personally in your daily life?
I love this question. As I found myself in the adventure of writing a memoir, I also learned to discern the voice of God in my life. What were my thoughts? What was from the enemy? And, what came from God? There was so much! Writing this book has helped me get to know new sides of God—ones that are intimate, caring, funny and thoughtful. I’ve realized He’s always speaking, I’m hungry to find spaces to be still and listen.
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Giveaway
To celebrate her tour, Danielle is giving away the grand prize package of Danielle’s favorite local coffee, Betty’s Recipe from the Roasterie in Kansas City & a signed copy of the book!! (here’s a link to the coffee: https://theroasterie.com/product/bettys-recipe/)
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